How do you get to be a Christian, going to church presumably often, and not hear about the sermon on the Mount or “turning the other cheek”
Good question. On the other hand, many things considered to be "Christian" in the US are detrimental to what Jesus has taught humanity. I know that and I'm not even a Christian.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%204:23-25&version=NIV
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They call themselves Christian but practically do the opposite of what Jesus has said.