Turn it around on him, mention the deporter-in-chief's record deportations, that even Trump didn't beat. All the African and middle-eastern countries the patron saint of drones bombed. All the poor folk the banks gave predatory loans to that he taught personal responsibility to by letting the banks take their homes. Making a speech blaming poor outcomes in black communities on fathers not being in the picture is every racist conservative's wet dream. It's much harder for your dad to admit he didn't like Obama's policies.