i just feel like i can't keep up with chat rooms. i used to love them. but i work such long hours
here i can have a slow moving short conversation over many days between shifts. sure it's not as personal, and feels kind of drive-by.
i recognize lots of people here but takes years to get to know anyone. but yeah back in the early days of chatrooms i made some RL relationships. deep ones. some leading to in person meetups
learned about my queerness, transness. so yeah i do miss that.