Marxist understand it's useless to view politics through identity alone.
On one hand, I thinking trying to "get" people on pronouncing her name wrong is just a way to do a gotcha because there's nothing else. On the other hand, I do recognize pronouncing names correctly is important. But the most important thing is if people correct themselves after being corrected then that's the end of the conversation. You're not automatically racist unless you're intentionally mispronouncing or butchering it completely to be funny.