▲ 941 ▼ Anon goes to dinner with coworkers (sh.itjust.works) submitted 2 years ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 209 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago (5 children) Also autistic here. Let's say you reply with "So why is that funny" and that person or a third person says "Don't be so sensetive". What's the best way to force the explanation? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] Restaldt@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago "Im not trying to be overly sensitive i genuinely just dont get the joke. Explain it to me. Make it funny." permalink fedilink source parent [–] Skates@feddit.nl 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Violence. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Violence is the best way to force anything. As soon as one’s strategy has devolved to forcing people into things, it’s best to just be authentic about it and own the violence. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ToyDork@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Please don’t assume my sensitivities. And then proceed to push again. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago I just say it’s either funny or it isn’t. Humor is an authentication mechanism. It’s either funny or it isn’t, and that binary signal is the whole point of humor. It’s an indicator people are on the same page or they aren’t. I’m not kidding. Humor is a test. You don’t ask “why wasn’t that password the right one?”. The password was either a match or it wasn’t. Once you understand the social function of humor, the question “why is that funny?” becomes bunk. permalink fedilink source parent [–] psud@aussie.zone 2 points 2 years ago* "I'm sorry, please carry on with your racist jokes" No need for sarcasm, deadpan works fine permalink fedilink source parent [+] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Restaldt@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago "Im not trying to be overly sensitive i genuinely just dont get the joke. Explain it to me. Make it funny." permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Skates@feddit.nl 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Violence. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Violence is the best way to force anything. As soon as one’s strategy has devolved to forcing people into things, it’s best to just be authentic about it and own the violence. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ToyDork@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago (1 child) Violence is the best way to force anything. As soon as one’s strategy has devolved to forcing people into things, it’s best to just be authentic about it and own the violence. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] ToyDork@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Please don’t assume my sensitivities. And then proceed to push again. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago I just say it’s either funny or it isn’t. Humor is an authentication mechanism. It’s either funny or it isn’t, and that binary signal is the whole point of humor. It’s an indicator people are on the same page or they aren’t. I’m not kidding. Humor is a test. You don’t ask “why wasn’t that password the right one?”. The password was either a match or it wasn’t. Once you understand the social function of humor, the question “why is that funny?” becomes bunk. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago I just say it’s either funny or it isn’t. Humor is an authentication mechanism. It’s either funny or it isn’t, and that binary signal is the whole point of humor. It’s an indicator people are on the same page or they aren’t. I’m not kidding. Humor is a test. You don’t ask “why wasn’t that password the right one?”. The password was either a match or it wasn’t. Once you understand the social function of humor, the question “why is that funny?” becomes bunk. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] psud@aussie.zone 2 points 2 years ago* "I'm sorry, please carry on with your racist jokes" No need for sarcasm, deadpan works fine permalink fedilink source parent
[+] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent