Fwiw, anyone giving you grief irl is a jerk, unless you're trying to convert them.
Away from the internet, I know a good handful of vegans that I gladly cook for. Not regions everyone hates y'all for living your beliefs.
And, just for full disclosure, I troll vegans online. That's where most of the jerks that are vegan do their thing, not irl.
Me and you, if life threw us together, I'd make you my vegan chili, and we'd chill. But I'd still troll you online if you did the usual online stuff that gets vegans painted as crazy.
Which is my best effort at saying that that's probably what you're missing. Even people like me that have no problems with the precepts of veganism per se, we can get tired of the vegans that take things too far, and then the entire belief system gets colored by that brush. It creates a general fatigue, then a general stereotype, and that turns into assholes going to vegan spaces and being assholes (as opposed to only doing it in other spaces). That in turn makes militant vegans go on the warpath, and you get stuff like this drama lol
It's a cycle of annoyance and limited perception. That cycle attracts the worst elements of humanity


