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You ever had a crush on someone back in the day, see them now and go "what was I thinking"? (hexbear.net)

submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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This happens to me when I rarely open up Facebook. I'd see someone I was obsessing over in the 10s, and now I just wonder what I was ever feeling with them. It's not like something happened and they're massively different, they're more or less the same. Really the world changed a lot and I'm not the LIB I used to be.

I'm not dating anyone new now. But if I had to judge someone as hot, they would have many of the following characteristics:

left of some soft (Marxist, Anarchist, hell I'll date a decent socdem)
mask wearing
vegan
high empathy, worry about the suffering of others
reader
actively organising something in their community

To be honest, I had a pretty basic taste in dates back in the day. If anything, this should be a self-crit.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Not really. When I was younger I would give it a go with pretty much anyone who showed interest in me because I wasn't very confident, so a sure thing was very appealing. I only ever met two people I really clicked with. The first one I dated through most of college and the second one I married ten years ago this month

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Congrats on the ten years!!!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Shocking that anyone would put up with me this long, but here we are!