Occasionally I have these days where I don't feel like doing work or chores. So I'm thinking, why not just enjoy myself, do something that interests me?

But then I don't find any motivation to do anything really. Not even the things I normally enjoy very much.

Typically I would then waste time browsing or watching videos, but that seems to make it worse. How to snap out of this?

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[–] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

I think it's best to avoid them as much as possible. What I have done is keep a log of what sends me into them so that I can be aware and limit my exposure to these triggers. For me, it's sensory overload, socializing, and stress. Basically, my brain has a certain amount of mental energy it can dedicate to processing, and when that runs out, I hit shutdown.

Given that, what seems to help with recovery is:

  • Quiet time
  • A dark, cool setting
  • Repetitive mindless tasks. For example, mining in Minecraft or looking at memes
  • Listening to or watching something I've seen/heard many times before
  • Sleep
  • Time with calm and quiet people
  • If the shutdown is triggered by social issues, then time with someone validating that could help develop a plan.
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  • [–] [S] 1 point 2 years ago (1 child)

    How do you find a cool spot and quiet time when at work?

    I find this very difficult to achieve in an office environment. Although I definitely need it.

    Just the though of somebody asking me why I’m sitting somewhere separately makes me uncomfortable. So I tend to avoid taking these kind of breaks. I know, sounds stupid. But I feel so uncomfortable if I’m thinking about how other people will interpret it.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I used to go to the bathroom. We had single stalls. You could also go somewhere quiet for lunch, or hang out in your car if that's an option.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    What do you do then though?

    I find myself getting even more tired if i spend that time on my phone for example.

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