dehumanizing people by stating they have no value is pro-kindness. News to me.

What? Quote me where I did that. I did not do that.

No, still think you are wrong. Have you heard black folk talk to each other, do they feel bad?

Wow, the "but they use that word!" argument. Context is important. Just like retard in music just means to slow down, how, when, and who uses words can change things.

I know someone who would have been described as retarded in the past. I asked him, he doesn't mind, he doubts any sane person with his disability would mind.

Also, the "but I have a ___ friend" argument. Hitting all of the classics right now, aren't you? One person does not make rule. I've heard from others that they don't appreciate it.

So stop being retarded yourself and stop advocating for groups you are not a part of that don't want none of your screeching.

Nice insults. Good argument. Which one of us is "screeching?"

I'll advocate for every group. All people are valuable

Coming into this instance, and stinking up the place. Other admins would have defederated, good thing we have a great admin.
(yes, hyperbole)

Other admins would have defederated from what? All other instances? I'm from a pretty small technology focused instance. You think your admin should defederated from us? Why? Because you don't like one person who's trying to get you to be a better person? Doesn't that seem a but much? Are you OK? You can talk about whatever's bothering you.