you'll note that the esteemed ex-posters only referred to wives in their shitty comments. not husbands, not boyfriends, not uncles or grandfathers. wives. only that.

at the fucking core of it, "haha it's funny because I'm joking that my/your/their wife can be made into food" is still the essential point that these shitty remarks centered on. tell me how that's anything but focused?

please fuck off with that bullshit.

(e: just realized this may also sound like I'm arguing (from) a binary - that's not the intention)