[–] [S] 1 point 8 months ago

It definitely is work. Choosing the right ropes for the right uses, learning how to tighten correctly a knot, not hurting the model, having a nice looking result... Honestly I knew this one already but I still had to start over once and it took me half an hour

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    On bondage/shibari? I always was kinky but I stumbled across a dom that gave me the basics (I didn't slept with him). Afterwards youtube was an endless source of joy but it was hard to find someone to get into it. So I learned some self tie techniques. The feeling of rope on itself is just arousing

    On my encounter? Surprisingly we barely talked. We met at the train station, he hold my hand and led me in the parking. I got pinned against a wall in a fairly empty area, choked until I put away my clothes. I was fucked before my top was removed, it appears I was way to much exciting for hum to wait~ I had an amazing moment

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    Rope bunny check

    Weeeell it just takes so much time to get into pure shibari aesthetics so I rather like the quick-into-fun-restraint too. Feeling completely helpless, being vulnerable, forced to be open...

    Pleased sigh

    Anyway this time it was definitely to impress someone, to trigger imagination in an effective way

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    No joke there are plenty of survival techniques to change a rope into and armband

    In my case, I had a very special encounter so I felt like wearing this as an underwear was a survival situation. I had no sex since a while, was dying inside ;3

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Sad. Maybe it's time to ask what changed? "I had the feeling I knew you on this topic but how do you feel about it today?" could be a relevant question, with mutual respect ofc. You don't want her to be pressured, neither feel put aside

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