[โ€“] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

I appreciate you sharing! Unfortunately I did have this conversation before marriage and she was receptive even more open to another woman, however, she's since backed off in interest for unknown reasons. So I more or less feel like the "rug has been pulled from under me" like she said that go lock my down and never intended to actually pursue.

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  • [โ€“] 3 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    In the same boat, from your word choice "very overwhelming" it would appear you are the female. I'm sorry you feel stressed by his want to appreciate you. People have different love languages and his is more physical. My Wife also is okay with a monthly shag. I've openly shared about wanting more snd am open to alternative options to make both parties happy, however, my wife is reluctant and hesitant to explore anything beyond 'vanilla' sex. I hope this thread actually gets some attention, cause I need answers too. Im open to share more if people want to know.

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