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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Lemmy.ml re-opened registration but I had problems signing up. Lemmy.world seemed like the next best option.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I joined sh.itjust.works because I like the domain. It makes me smile ๐Ÿ™‚

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I like the domain and it wasn't overloaded like most of the Lemmy.xx ones. I was torn between this and beehaw, glad i went with sh.itjust.works

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I read the thread where that domain was born, lol. It was pretty funny.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I joined mander.xyz because it has a central theme around the natural sciences. It could possibly include STEM content as well; there is an ongoing discussion about it. The admin(s) are present and very responsive.

For anyone with a love of science and/or nature I recommend it highly as a home instance of Lemmy.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I'm trying to set up another account at mander but I haven't had any success.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Looks cool! If i ever need to switch instances, I know where I'm going

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I just picked lemmy.one mostly at random, but also in part because it advertised itself as well regulated but also not heavily populated and thus prone to crashing with the recent influx of reddfugees.

Seems to work okay, but I can't create a community without admin approval and the instance also disallows downvoting, and I'm not a big fan of that at all, but I'll give it a while longer and see.

I'm still finding it a challenge to find the balance of communities that interest me I used to have. There's an awful lot of meta chatter about the site itself from new users that, while I understand, gets rather annoying when it takes up the whole feed. So it's definitely an adjustment, resulting in me using it less than I did my old haunts, but in the meantime I've gotten a lot more reading done than I used to, so I've got that going for me.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Didn't realize I couldn't downvote. Might be time to look elsewhere.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Me, I'm waiting for things to settle a bit and see what recommendations float to the surface for me. Not being able to downvote might turn out to actually be good for my own mental health. We'll see.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I actually made my home in the one hosting a previous reddit community I was fond of, just choose one u like.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I initially used reddthat.com because I've already tried 5 different instances and the sign up doesnt work. Then I remembered about the piracy community, so i switched over to lemmy.dbzer0.com, a pirate heaven. Feels like home. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Not gonna lie. I've got multiple accounts across platforms. But yours seems to be responding quickly and the content is solid, so... here I am.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I was a bit confused at the start and in my haste created a few different accounts across kbin, lemmy.world, and Mastodon. Worst case scenario I have backups and I'll just end up using the instance I prefer the most, the most.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I was told it was better for load balancing if we didn't all use the same one. So I just looked for one that had easy signups and didn't seem overeager to block stuff. Apparently, some from this instance come form /r/china. I'm not, but I do drink coffee. Anyway, I think it's working out so far; better than reddit anyway.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

@wumpus @minorsecond Good for availability. Good for redundancy. Largely reduces and or eliminates opportunities for profiteering. Makes individuals more like first class citizens in the web. Long live decentralization and federation.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

lemmy.world seemed reputable with a straightforward domain name, and no out-of-the-ordinary policies.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

feddit.de because it was made for german potatoes like me

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago
[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Munching on fries rn is this cannabilism?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Yes and Iโ€™ve contacted the authorities thanks for the tip

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I was looking for a furry one. Found pawb.social and yiffit. Stuck with the one that had nsfw. They both are Lemmy instances

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Was looking for a furry one, and pawb.social seemed to be well-run (since it was related to a couple of decently-sized Mastodon servers) and was generic enough (and not NSFW focused). There also seemed to be a decent number of technical people there as well (in fact, one of the Mastodon instances is furry.engineer), so it matched up with my other interests as well. I considered lemmyrs.org, but ended up not choosing it.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

same, went for the furry one.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

The github page said to pick one at rasdom and not over think it.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I run a Mastodon server and Lemmy started to grow, happened to find a cool domain so here we are

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I joined lemmy.ml because the join-lemmy site gave me extremely little to go on. It was a coin toss between this and beehaw.org once I realized how few instances were established and not right-wing.

That was only 2 weeks ago and already I've seen the site force 2 server upgrades, even as the admins have strongly encouraged new users to join elsewhere to prevent centralization.

The instance list desperately needs a few columns added, including whether new signups are encouraged or discouraged.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I went with lemmy.ca because I figured it'd put me in proximity to Canadian Political discourse.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I chose infosec.pub because I think it has a good chance at longevity and will be managed well.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I chose programming.dev because i am a programmer and developer.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I did not. I ended up on lemmy.world but visiting over, which I think is a cool feature.

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I landed at vlemmy.net. I tried to register at a few bigger ones that gave infinite circles. By the time I got to vlemmy I wasn't really being too picky anymore, I was just trying to figure out if the problem was me or overloading.

A nice side effect of landing there is that some of my very few subscriptions are on beehaw, and we haven't been defederated.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I'm on lemmy.one because of that issue too.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Thought about switching over, with zero knowledge of this platform, clicked random link in reddit thread and it was lemmy.world. turns out it's populated and stable.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Knowing that Beehaw and Lemmy.ml were overloaded, I chose the next biggest one in my country at the time, which was Lemmy.one.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Back in my day, the only instance that federated with all other instances was lemmy.ml ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I created my own because I wanted a more specific type of instance, a place that I would want to read the local feed rather than just see randomness. I also wanted to create a space that I felt at home.

You're welcome to come say hello at Wayfarers' Haven - sign-ups are open but do need a short application to keep things ship-shape.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

For the meme.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I'm on Beehaw because there are no downvote button

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

But what would happen if I down voted you from a different instance?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I prefer kbin's UI to the other federated servers I've tried. Beehaw is probably #2 for me, and it seems like a really nice community. Mastodon.social is also cool but it's a lot more twitter-like which I have a hard time getting used to.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I tend to hang in indie game development subreddits and didn't want to have to deal with confrontational trolls on a regular basis, so programming.dev felt like a relatively safe choice since it's neither a super large server or a general-purpose one. I just wanna make lil' games and have little patience for those lacking in empathy and maturity.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Programming.dev represent! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝ

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