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[–] 8 points 16 hours ago*

I don't have to imagine, I did once take an app ride "a couple of blocks." My wife was released from a hospital in our own neighborhood after emergency surgery. Though we live close by, walking home would have been a bad decision.

We thanked the driver for accepting such a short ride, and tipped well.

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  • [–] 9 points 18 hours ago

    I mean, it's 2026 leaving kids unsupervised for "a couple of blocks" is probably enough for CPS to come for you. While when I was young it was what basically everyone over about 8 was expected to be fine handling.

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  • [–] 13 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

    I can picture this HOA Karen fuming because she doesn't want to put the chardonnay down long enough to walk them herself.

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  • [–] 10 points 21 hours ago (4 children)

    Wanted to say "just take it with you and enjoy it on the walk", but remembered that the land of the free doesn't allow it in a lot of places

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  • [–] 5 points 20 hours ago* (2 children)

    It's technically illegal in a lot of places, but not really enforced as long as you're subtle about it. She'd be fine putting it in a tumbler.

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  • [–] 20 points 23 hours ago

    I drove Uber back when it was a new thing. I get pinged once and it's a fucking elementary school. I assumed my rider would be a teacher, or staff of some sort. In walks an (at most), 8 year old girl. She said her brother booked it for her, and he did it all the time. I felt quite uneasy about doing the ride, but I was in a bit of a conundrum because I know I'm of a good enough conscience that I will get her there safely, but surely if I cancelled, the brother would just book another one for her, and who knows what would happen then. In the end, I took her maybe a half mile to her home, but I felt super off about it. In hindsight, I should have just cancelled and reported the rider, but I'm not sure drivers had those resources in those days.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    I was already on the drivers side with the "we do it all the time. it's just down the street" I don't really care if they do it all the time. The driver doesn't want to drive kids. but telling the driver to fuck off is worse. Wonder if the driver can get more pay for the harassment. Only defense the parent could have had was that the driver could have canceled the trip themself.

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  • [–] 53 points 1 day ago* (1 child)

    tbf, in many places in America walking a couple blocks is a legitimately bad and dangerous idea, especially for kids, because pedestrian/non-car infrastructure and safety is so dog shit

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  • [–] 15 points 1 day ago

    Walkin' in L.A., nobody walks in L.A.

    Seriously, I was a few blocks from my hotel, looking for a specific restaurant and stopped in a convenience store to get directions.

    Yeah, it's that way a couple of blocks. Like, do you want one of us to give you a ride?

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  • [–] 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    Uh, I know people in Houston (the most car dependent major city in the US) who would call an uber to cross the street because it's so fucking hot in the summer you would need to change your suit if you tried the trip on foot.

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  • [–] 94 points 2 days ago (8 children)

    From Uber’s driver help page:

    If you suspect a rider is underage

    • Politely ask them to show a driver’s license or ID card to confirm their age.
    • You have the option to cancel the trip if you believe the rider is underage (Select unaccompanied minor as the cancellation reason and potentially receive a cancellation fee).

    They apparently do have Teen rides now but only through a connected account and only in a few cities. I would assume Lyft has similar policies.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 day ago

    it's an insane risk. I work for transportation in k-12 and I would never transport kids without several feet of paperwork, it's difficult even with that. you have to have a lot of policies about what to do if and when anything happens, they won't get out, they have a medical emergency, they refuse to use a seat belt, they scream racial slurs, they start a journey of self discovery, they hit their head on hard objects for fun, they punch windows aggressively while screaming, they report criminal acts of themselves or others, they light up a Jay, they start discovering others, they forcefully insist on discovering others without consent, and so on. unaccompanied minors are a nightmare just in terms of liability and crisis management.

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    [–] 103 points 2 days ago (30 children)

    Seeing posts like this makes me realise how lucky I am to have been born in a country with sane pedestrian infrastructure and generally safe environment.

    I found it funny when I watched a video titled "10 most surprising things about Finland" and one of them was about how kids just walk about in the city, on their own. I was confused as to why that is so shocking but then I remembered that North America has sort of forgot about using legs as a mode of transport.

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  • [–] 2 points 23 hours ago* (1 child)

    The US is a very large and varied place. There are places like you describe that still exist in the US. It would be like saying all of Europe is canals and bicycles because you saw a few photos of Amsterdam

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  • [–] 40 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    North America has sort of forgot about using legs as a mode of transport.

    If they remember to use them a moron in a lifted emotional-support-pickup-truck will break every bone in their body at the first intersection. And get away with it. North American city design is not just car-centric, it's actively human-hostile. Giant stroads, no sidewalks, no bike lanes....

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    [–] 158 points 2 days ago (57 children)

    Sometimes people exaggerate tremendously about "a couple of blocks" in my experience. And it could also involve crossing some very busy intersections.

    Or this person is just a moron, that's also an option.

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  • [–] 57 points 2 days ago (43 children)

    There are lots of people who don't realize the word "couple" means two. Like they ask me for a couple of something and I give them exactly two and then they are confused because they expected several more.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 day ago

    When I was a kid, I needed clarification on these weasel words. My dad told me, a couple is two or three, but not one. One is always one. Four to six is a few, and seven or more is several, and you can remember that because several sounds like seven.

    So, that's always been it for me. If you ask me for a couple you'll probably get two, but maybe three. You'll get five or six if you ask for a few, and you'll get seven if you ask for several. My dad an I were a lot alike.

    Also, a "handful" is either five, because five fingers, of course, or however many I can grab with one hand, if it's candy or something.

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    [–] 73 points 2 days ago (3 children)

    This country is such a backwards shit hole. People are afraid to let their kids walk a few blocks, on a route they're familiar with, cause some asshole may try and call DCFS on them.

    Meanwhile there are more fucking cameras deployed in public than in any time in human history, and they have the capability to network together and track people and relay information to police, emt's, for fire departments, etc all in real time... But we don't use it to help make people safer, or give them peace of mind, or allow their kids to play and be free.

    That should tell you everything about the real intentions of all this surveillance bullshit.

    It's not here to keep the slaves safe. It's here to keep them in line

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    [–] 12 points 1 day ago*

    Thinking back to my youth when it was just endless sprawl of houses with no side walks or even street lights… I walked around in that “neighborhood” a lot and it always felt scary and unsafe, if rideshare had been a thing back then (and I wasn’t too poor to afford it which I definitely would have been) I would have liked the option to stay off the narrow gravel road shoulders with drivers passing by me at 45-50mph

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