I don't know, I haven't hosted RustDesk myself, but it sounds like maybe you're not actually using your self-hosted server for your clients? Because that message sounds like it's entirely about "The Public Server" which is not your server. Right?
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Do you have both the ID and the Relay Server set? The status bar at the bottom of the Home tab should say "Ready" with a Green Light if it can connect with your server. Otherwise, it'll say "Ready, For a faster connection, please set up your own server" which is what seems like is happening with yours
Looks like you’re not on the same network. You’ll either need to specify a relay or go VPN to the same network. Tailscale or something like it works great as it will think it’s on the same network and not require a relay server.
What do you use it for? Nomachine worked nicer for my usecase.
I've seen that message only when I forget to add my relay info and key. Maybe it's not getting picked up? Check on settings > network > relay/ID see if the info there is right.
I'd say avoid Rustdesk due to its shady Chinese origins
Proof for that allegation?
The issues with Rustdesk are pretty well known at this point.
https://www.reddit.com/r/selfhosted/comments/14kjvkg/community_consensus_on_rustdesk_with_all_the/
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