I think the main idea is to have fun and make sure everyone's happy.

Four orgasms at the same time? You can try, but how about having fun instead, rather than timing the whole thing?

Personally no. If I finish early, I swap to being support and voyeur to make sure my fellow cumpanions get off too. But a communal orgasm does sound like a wicked good thing to attempt, though not necessary.

IME no. Though haven't done straight swap really, that doesn't sound like as much fun as more of a pileup. Usually (I'm a straight lady) it's both guys with each lady at least some of the time, while the other takes a break/watches. Women who can multiple O are overrepresented in swinger community, and guys often can (I think it's Viagra, LOL).

So basically no, that hasn't what I've experienced but I do not understand straight up swapping, I'm with the guy I like to fuck best already, right? Two on one in a lot of configurations happens with a two couple meetup, in my experience. And certainly getting off more than once.

BTW, this reminds me that we wanted to start a Swingers community here: https://lemmy.tf/c/swingers@lemmynsfw.com