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Don't_IRL (thelemmy.club)
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[–] 48 points 5 months ago (3 children)

I love that explanation that goes "homophobic men are worried that gay men will treat them like homophobic men treat women."

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    i prefer the explanation that goes men have been in locker rooms and heard what shit other men said in grade school. i'd choose the bear too.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I actually never heard that kind of talk in grade school, or rather it was already getting pushback 🤷‍♂️

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    i'm older xenniel, so like i heard it from the lads born in the 70s but didn't repeat it. telling them to knock it off just made you a target so after the first few times you keep your head down.

    kind of like here, now that i notice.

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    • [–] 22 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Hetero myself, but hung around lots of gay dudes for a few years. Them hitting on me all the time. I realized its not that different from a woman you are not interested in hitting on you. Just politely turn them down and move on.

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I've been propositioned by gay men more times than I can remember. Literally every single cruise I've been on. Vegas, bars, house parties, and barbeques. I realize I give off the impression that I myself, might be gay, but I've been married for almost 20 years to a woman. I do not find any men sexually attractive.

    Guess what? It's always a huge fucking compliment. I take it as I'm fit enough, dress well, and I'm seen as non-threatening. I always like to joke that I wish I were gay though, lol.

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    • [–] 7 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    That show was awesome.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    What show?

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago*

    Legion. Its a Marvel show but not cnnected to anything else, its weird as fuck but also amazing if you like weird as fuck things.

    Essentially, a super powerful psychic mutant is maybe schizophrenic and/or actually psychotic, as the core plot. Half the show literally takesplace inside people's heads, which is part of what makes it so trippy.

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    • [–] 7 points 5 months ago*

    Damn those yellow piss eyes are so sexy... too bad.

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    [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    Then they get pissed off when you tell them not to flatter themselves

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    [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Im the opposite of this meme. Im a "hetro" who tried desperately to hit on and hook up with every gay person I've known in my life, but they all turn me down . l dont do this anymore im old and broke now lol

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