Lemmy.

Normal people with normal levels of 'give-a-fuck' about their social media don't bother with federated systems. They just go where the crowd is. If someone is on here, they're weird.

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I understand your question and I do not think "all of lemmy" is a serious answer to it. lemmy is comprehensively dorky but not weird on the whole. memes about donald trump and linux don't quite have that quirked out charm.

where is the SCA of lemmy? I'm not sure but maybe you'd find something to your liking on the Local tab of one of these instances: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/ https://lemmy.sdf.org/ https://beehaw.org/. Make accounts, browse "Local" and block those big comms like meme, news, technology.

If you don't find your niches there, check out the rest of the fediverse. Lemmy is just a small piece. You might have better luck with a larger pool of people like mastodon, or a narrower one, like misskey. In all cases, be the kind of weird you want to see in the world, and you will attract like-minded people. Mind community guidelines. In general, try anywhere artists congregate.

The very best place to meet weird people is out in the world. Talk to people at the bus stop and eventually someone will talk back.

I feel like a lot of us here identify as “weird “ but what brand of weird are you looking for?

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