Can't say I know how. My own limited understanding prevents me from acquiring a verbal lingo that gets a point across entirely.
Sometimes I read replies to my own comments and just stare at them just asking myself "What?". And the longer the conversation, the easier i lose the original thread and just go off-track, probably confusing the other side even further. Even when writing a longer comment, I just jump from thought to thought. So at times, the first sentence and the last end up being in different dimensions, which may come across as jarring to a reader. Can't say I've managed to fix that over the years.