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What are your sexual expectations in erotic stories? (lemmynsfw.com)

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I have a few erotic short stories I'm working on, and in one of them I've arrived to the sex scene. During outlining it, I questioned if the guy should cum multiple times. Is it hotter if they don't, or does the lack of realism take you out of the story?

Are there any other porn-logic tropes in stories that turn you on or off?

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[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 2 years ago

I don't mind exaggerated at all. It's very difficult to write sex scenes in the first place, I don't get stuck on whether the action and responses are likely IRL. That doesn't take me out of the moment the same way bad writing might.

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