▲ 689 ▼ They're just big fans of the cuisine or something. (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world [M] to c/memes@lemmy.world 168 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 7 points 2 years ago (3 children) Oh man I need to go there! ...for the peace and calm. ...and maybe actually feel attractive lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Everyone deserves to have a cute Filipina call their dad bod sexy 😤 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 2 years ago (1 child) I don't even have a dad bod! I've actually heard women say they prefer someone with a dad bod when I spent time on dating sites lol I'm just whiter than white bread, short, hairy in all the wrong places and not at all in the right ones, and as for my face I'll just say I'm pretty aesthetically challenged lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) You win the honesty game today - thanks for the read, that was lovely! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago Lol glad I made someone's day a little better! permalink fedilink source parent [–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* The stereotypes may be those places but it’s certainly not limited to them. A bunch of years back I was touring Indonesia and somehow ended up with some way too young girls. We noped out of that as quickly as we could find our driver, but I was freaked out for weeks after. I don’t see how anyone is comfortable with that situation Still tipped the driver though, for taking us around all day. I don’t know if he misunderstood going to a club, or the club jumped right to the stereotype permalink fedilink source parent [+] astreus@lemmy.ml -7 points 2 years ago (1 child) You do see how your last statement is not okay and plays into racial fetishism, right? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) If it wasn't a joke yeah I see that, but I was just using it as an opportunity to make fun of myself lol But also, it would be them fetishizing me which I'm not against being as ugly as I am lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] astreus@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago Gotcha! Though because it's fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means "white is right" it's not okay to exploit! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Everyone deserves to have a cute Filipina call their dad bod sexy 😤 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 2 years ago (1 child) I don't even have a dad bod! I've actually heard women say they prefer someone with a dad bod when I spent time on dating sites lol I'm just whiter than white bread, short, hairy in all the wrong places and not at all in the right ones, and as for my face I'll just say I'm pretty aesthetically challenged lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) You win the honesty game today - thanks for the read, that was lovely! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago Lol glad I made someone's day a little better! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 2 years ago (1 child) I don't even have a dad bod! I've actually heard women say they prefer someone with a dad bod when I spent time on dating sites lol I'm just whiter than white bread, short, hairy in all the wrong places and not at all in the right ones, and as for my face I'll just say I'm pretty aesthetically challenged lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) You win the honesty game today - thanks for the read, that was lovely! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago Lol glad I made someone's day a little better! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) You win the honesty game today - thanks for the read, that was lovely! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago Lol glad I made someone's day a little better! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago Lol glad I made someone's day a little better! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* The stereotypes may be those places but it’s certainly not limited to them. A bunch of years back I was touring Indonesia and somehow ended up with some way too young girls. We noped out of that as quickly as we could find our driver, but I was freaked out for weeks after. I don’t see how anyone is comfortable with that situation Still tipped the driver though, for taking us around all day. I don’t know if he misunderstood going to a club, or the club jumped right to the stereotype permalink fedilink source parent
[+] astreus@lemmy.ml -7 points 2 years ago (1 child) You do see how your last statement is not okay and plays into racial fetishism, right? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) If it wasn't a joke yeah I see that, but I was just using it as an opportunity to make fun of myself lol But also, it would be them fetishizing me which I'm not against being as ugly as I am lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] astreus@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago Gotcha! Though because it's fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means "white is right" it's not okay to exploit! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) If it wasn't a joke yeah I see that, but I was just using it as an opportunity to make fun of myself lol But also, it would be them fetishizing me which I'm not against being as ugly as I am lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] astreus@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago Gotcha! Though because it's fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means "white is right" it's not okay to exploit! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] astreus@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago Gotcha! Though because it's fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means "white is right" it's not okay to exploit! permalink fedilink source parent
