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Do you struggle to keep your house tidy? (lemmy.world)
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I feel like my house is constantly a fucking mess. My wife and I work 80 hours between us and we have a 2 year old and I feel like it's constantly a mess.

We do what we can and often spend a couple hours on a weekend tidying but it's a losing battle.

How do you cope/keep on top of things?

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[โ€“] 28 points 3 years ago (6 children)

Moved from 1000sqft to 2400 and all hope was lost.

With 2 kids under 5 and a couple of pets, I literally can't clean fast enough to make a dent.

Bathrooms and kitchen are clean.... the rest belongs to the animals.

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  • [โ€“] 5 points 3 years ago (3 children)

    So me and my wife talk about this.... Is keeping a small house tidy easier than a large house? We have a 2400 sq ft house as well. I would assume if you had a small house, it's the same amount of mess, but it'd be more overwhelming because it's compressed into a smaller space. And clean space would fill up faster. So you'd be cleaning more to at least have some space that's clean.

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  • [โ€“] 6 points 3 years ago

    As someone who grew up in a house that was definitely too small for a 4-person family, it makes keeping the house decluttered a lot more difficult because there's just not space to put things away. And god forbid you aquire NEW things, because then you have to shuffle everything around to make a place for it or it just ends up laying around.

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 3 years ago

    I say it depends on the type of people making the mess. I myself can live with a little mess. If it not catastrophic, I might add to it by not putting some stuff away immediately. But at some point, it's too much, and I'll be putting things in order as I go, instead of adding more.

    But with a bigger place, I can spread it more, so overall more mess can be made before I stop adding more

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 3 years ago

    Dispersion is the problem. In the last place, there were 2 places the kids could wreck, the living room and their shared bedroomso we could tidy them and it would be presentable..... this place? Half dozen easy, plus there's 2 additional bathrooms, the kitchen is twice the size and the basement is like a soccer pitch sized FFS.

    We needed the space, last place wasn't working so these are good problems to have but it's definitely more than I anticipated.

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