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How do I explain non-binary gender to right-leaning 70-year-old grandparents? (sopuli.xyz)
submitted 3 years ago by to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org
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[–] 2 points 3 years ago (3 children)

ok wait, i know what nb is but think somethings going over my head here haha. i’m just a bit confused- can you just elaborate on what you mean by “you could pick where it sat each day”? or is that just meant to be part of it being a simplified version of nb?

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  • [–] 4 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    I had a non-binary friend who wasn't just a tomboy or a fem guy, they had a bit of a cycle back and forth between being full guy mode and full girl mode over the course of six months. I don't personally identify as NB but I also have a tendency to lean in and out of my masc side over time.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    okay, i think i see what you mean. i have a similar internal pendulum of femininity and androgyny despite being cis, so i can relate. your wording of “picking” is what threw me off, since it sounded like you mean that nb people pick their gender lol, but i understand that you meant that with presentation now instead, which i agree with.

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