I’m a fucking anarchist 😂

Being an ancap doesn't count. That's not a real ideology.

Please quote me exactly where I said I want authority to force others to cater to my desires. The exact sentence.

There's text and then there's subtext. You want access to a private space that can serve as a platform for you to voice your opinions, even when the people already in that private space don't want you there or to have to listen to you. Your desire for authority over that space is a foundational component of that.

Also just a heads up, when you start spewing a bunch of bullshit like “it’s not authoritianism because you have no valid claim to rights.” I don’t see the point in arguing. If fudging details makes you feel happy, that’s your choice.

It's not bullshit, though, because that's the underlying premise of an authoritarian regime, particularly in a governmental sense: you have an authority that ignores the collective will of the people of a nation state. Those people have a valid claim to rights by virtue of their relationship to that nation as its citizens. You claiming that it's authoritarian to bar your entrance into a private online community is like saying it's authoritarian for someone to lock their doors to keep you out of their house. You don't have some inalienable right to access EVERY single space that exists in the physical or virtual world.

Freedom of speech exists beyond it’s legal representations. Like holy fuck, that is a BAD argument.

Except, it really doesn't. Private individuals don't owe you a platform. And that's what you're demanding. You seem to be conflating those two things: freedom of speech and a platform. They're different things. You can't be compelled to express opinions that you don't hold by the threat of state violence. That's freedom of speech. But you're also not owed a mechanism by which to broadcast those things. In America, for example, you can put a sign in your yard calling for virtually any kind of political policy change, ideological position, or political candidate that you want. But you don't have the inalienable right to stick the same sign in your neighbor's yard. Your argument is, basically, that, yes, you actually do, and no one should be able to stop you.

Also, it's "its legal representation" not "it's legal representation." "Its" indicates possession. "It's" is a contraction of "it" and "is." Just a heads up, since you don't seem to know the difference.

For example, in a hypothetical would you be okay with beehaw refusing to serve gay members? You’d be okay with that?

I'm sure you think this is some big "gotcha," but it isn't. If you recall, I said, "Beehaw’s administrators and moderators don’t want you there because you insist on being able to voice beliefs that they find offensive or dangerous." The implication is that they aren't responding to your identity (such as being LGBT), they're responding to behavior (what you say and do). These are different things, and your hypothetical actively and transparently misrepresents Beehaw's moderators in that regard. That said, there are plenty of privately hosted websites out there that are deeply reactionary. Stormfront is a famous one. Places like this are ran by people who hold beliefs that I find absolutely despicable, and I'm sure they would actively ban anyone who was LGBT, leftist, anti-racist, etc., but I do believe they should have the freedom to host their own terrible little corner of the internet without a government shutting them down or compelling them to conform to some arbitrary standard of behavior. Suggesting otherwise would obviously open the door for a government to do the same to progressive spaces with impunity. Which, historically, most Western governments have already done...a lot. But it seems ill advised to try and make that any easier than it already is.

Your other examples are just terrible to the point of not even being worth individual acknowledgment. Businesses, hospitals, educational institutions, and other, similar organizations are typically subject to anti-discriminatory regulation on the basis of federal funding and some kind of critical material relationship with the populace as a whole. In other words, banning someone from a hospital or from employment on the basis of their identity is a material detriment to the collective public good. Banning someone from a private internet forum, however, is not, because labor, commerce, medical care, and internet forums are all different things that should probably be governed and regulated in different ways. This is, of course, how it is in the USA, but other places have similar statutes. Additionally, if you get money from the government, you automatically play by its rules. Places like Beehaw are private. Totally private. They receive no financial support from any government in any way. Whether you feel any of this is justifiable or not ultimately boils down to your perspective on the concept of freedom of association. You clearly don't believe individuals should be allowed freedom of association, seemingly in any capacity, and I clearly do.