Part of my problem with Starfield is that the builds are basically pointless. Your background only gives you perk points in a few skills, and the only background worth using is Bounty Hunter since those three skills are absolute necessities for playing the game. Your traits matter more, but you can get absolute duds. I thought I had some strong role playing potential with a Freestar Enlightened whose parents are still alive... but those traits suck and don't work together in the slightest. As an Enlightened Atheist, I have access to a chest with some hot garbage in a location on Jemeson that I had no reason to visit until past level 30. As a Freestar, I have some "unique" dialogue options that boil down to "I'm also from Akila! There are Ashtas!" My parents were really cool to have around... until I found out that giving me an ass garbage ship is the last thing they ever do. They're also UC, so I have no idea how my character is from Akila. My grandma was a UC marine in the war, and I'm wearing her Freestar-killing duds now. I couldn't even invite them to my wedding. My wife's big character quest has to do with her Freestar-killing ship crashing on a planet, and I don't recall there even being a dialogue option about those being my people she was killing back then.

Why are my parents UC if I'm Freestar? Why can't I invite them to my wedding? Why aren't they enlightened? Surely Bethesda could have spent some of the last decade making 16 sets of parents to account for the 4x4 possible combinations of religion and background. Nah, they spent all that time making an absolute assload of crewmates you can and never will hire.