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Whats a stupid ritual in your life that makes you happy? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 3 years ago by SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Having coffee, smth sweet and a followup cigarrete in the morning makes me happy to be awake. Or kiss goodbyes and hellos.

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[–] Papanca@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago (3 children)

Particularly when leaving on bad terms, or in a fight, or just nagging, you would probably forever feel guilt and remorse

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[–] syl@programming.dev 1 point 3 years ago (2 children)

I have to start doing this.. Saying I love you even when, or especially when, someone did something I did not like..

"I hated what you just did.. It make me feel like crap. Still, I love you."

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[–] Papanca@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child)

This, you should tell yourself as well. Many of us hate ourselves, because of what we did or didn't do, or how we are, or how we should be.

Then tell yourself; this was not a nice thing to do, you can do better. But still, i love you :-)

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[–] syl@programming.dev 1 point 3 years ago

Damn. Thank you for being awesome.

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