My experience hasnt been like yours at all and i am sorry you think you're weird or something?
I mean i was a loner because geographically a lot of kids didn't live near me. I took the time to learn about people and everyone who works with me likes me, but i also kept myself safe and i enjoy being weird.
My experience with discord is it's a place like highschool where people get shut out if they arent as loud.
Im not sure why you're anti thoughtful young people, i think people enjoy a lot of different activities and informing yourself of the world around you is exactly what makes well adjusted people, not late jight drunken hang outs.
It's been weird. Have a good one and work on thinking better about tech and those hobbies. No one "well adjusted" really throws that stuff away as inherently maladaptive. I think in person peer pressure not to grow because you live around ignorant people wont have a lot of appeal to a good person.