One pitfall I see people fall into is expecting to find the same level of polish and convenience that Big Tech has in Open Source alternatives.
Trying to find a Macbook, iPhone, or macOS, but it's Linux is going to be a fool's errand. They're different worlds and you shouldn't expect one to work like the other. Some things have no equivalents and you will have to give them up. Don't give into the loss aversion. These were traps from the very beginning. You're just noticing them now. Focus on the newly gained freedom. You'll have to learn to like freedom more than convenience traps and shiny UIs.
Having said that, Linux has definitely made huge strides in being more user friendly, but realistically, it's not as seamless as those billion-dollar corporations.