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Terms like "transgender" [T], trans-masculine [TM] or trans-feminine [TF] are equally as informative but not unpleasant and dysphoric as "male-to-female" and "female-to-male", which by many people are and will be viewed negatively.

Since posting and sexting is supposed to be about about fun and pleasure, I suggest changing the current rules to make space more inviting and accepting for different people. (:

Due to the mod request, I am personally fine with changing my gender tags ([F] (trans)) to [NB] for the time being and abstain from further posting as I'm principally opposed to refering to myself as "male to female" instead of "trans-feminine" or simply "transgender woman". There is no need to introduce each post with implication of being "half a man" or "formerly a man" and the like.

It's not that I am deeply offended or pretentious, but rather not taking pleasure from being grouped together with men [M] whenever I want to post something sexy.

P.S. I was otherwise very happy with my experience and enjoyed all the posts, comments and interactions (; <3

Cheers

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[–] -1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I can't speak for everyone, though I suspect I'm the average viewer of the [F] filter. For me, it's 100% about breedability. Hormones and surgery can't change what matters. An infertile woman still has the equipment, even if some of it's faulty. No comment on [M], it's not my interest.

I know this isn't what some people want to hear, but that's how sexual attraction works for me, and likely most viewers of the [F] tag. Sorry, but it is what it is.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    As a viewer of the F tag, I'm fairly certain you are wrong about most of "us".

    To me, what's attractive about a person or their post is the thought of what I might want to do with them and/or they with me. Those fantasies almost never feature getting someone pregnant. More likely they feature the opposite, actually. In general, I feel like most people are here for the process, not the potential result. ^^

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