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Terms like "transgender" [T], trans-masculine [TM] or trans-feminine [TF] are equally as informative but not unpleasant and dysphoric as "male-to-female" and "female-to-male", which by many people are and will be viewed negatively.

Since posting and sexting is supposed to be about about fun and pleasure, I suggest changing the current rules to make space more inviting and accepting for different people. (:

Due to the mod request, I am personally fine with changing my gender tags ([F] (trans)) to [NB] for the time being and abstain from further posting as I'm principally opposed to refering to myself as "male to female" instead of "trans-feminine" or simply "transgender woman". There is no need to introduce each post with implication of being "half a man" or "formerly a man" and the like.

It's not that I am deeply offended or pretentious, but rather not taking pleasure from being grouped together with men [M] whenever I want to post something sexy.

P.S. I was otherwise very happy with my experience and enjoyed all the posts, comments and interactions (; <3

Cheers

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[–] 1 point 3 days ago

Another viewer here, same. When I'm looking at porn, I don't care about gender. I only care about sex. [F (trans)] should not be used, because it shows up when I filter by [F]. I get that some people don't mind, but I strongly do not want. I don't care about other tags like [T], as long as I can filter by [F] and not get any of that.

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