18+

You must be 18+ to view this community

You must be at least eighteen years old to view this. Are you over eighteen and willing to see adult content?

 

Terms like "transgender" [T], trans-masculine [TM] or trans-feminine [TF] are equally as informative but not unpleasant and dysphoric as "male-to-female" and "female-to-male", which by many people are and will be viewed negatively.

Since posting and sexting is supposed to be about about fun and pleasure, I suggest changing the current rules to make space more inviting and accepting for different people. (:

Due to the mod request, I am personally fine with changing my gender tags ([F] (trans)) to [NB] for the time being and abstain from further posting as I'm principally opposed to refering to myself as "male to female" instead of "trans-feminine" or simply "transgender woman". There is no need to introduce each post with implication of being "half a man" or "formerly a man" and the like.

It's not that I am deeply offended or pretentious, but rather not taking pleasure from being grouped together with men [M] whenever I want to post something sexy.

P.S. I was otherwise very happy with my experience and enjoyed all the posts, comments and interactions (; <3

Cheers

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I'm all for T, TF, and TM as well, and NB for those who prefer it. For me the gender tags just tells me more about the person than for filtering. While I never actually comment in NSFW coms, if I were it'd let me know how to address them.

Having to be exclusively MTF or FTM is silly. I thought you tagged it well, and you have an enviable booty!

Edit about 7 hours later: My guess as to why they're limited right now is due to how the community/instance does auto-tagging and flairs, which is why the sidebar dictates posts with multiple people have separated tags in the post title. That's a best guess going by the pinned post about the issue. IMO, if additional tags/flairs cannot be supported right now then that function should be dropped for the time being in favor of better tags in post titles.

  • source