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[–] 9 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Oh I'm not saying it isn't.

But one question, would you still hang out with that one guy, and then make a coded text message with your parents to extract you, in case it happened again?

Or would you just cut that one guy it off your life?

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  • [–] 17 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

    Emergencies are always best prevented, but it's still best to have a plan in place for them. This is the emergency plan.

    Now, if the kid is routinely invoking it then it's probably time to have a talk about what setting boundaries with friends looks like and offering support if toxic friendships need be ended, but having a code like this figured out in advance is always going to be advisable IMO.

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