fyi: it's "drugs"

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[–] 6 points 11 hours ago (10 children)

You're also thinking describing an extreme scenario. What about the scenario when you're both drunk and just too impaired to make good decisions? The other person isn't in the right mind to consent but you were both fooling around before you both got too fucked up. That's a scenario where bad decisions get made. From my understanding the facilitating of those scenarios is "rape culture". Not every case is going to be a simple as one person was sober and the other was passed out.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 hours ago (7 children)

    You make it seem like when someone is drunk they may do anything. If I killed someone while I was drunk I wouldn't just chuckle "sorry I wasn't myself". I would feel extreme remorse and want to repent for the harm I caused.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 hours ago (6 children)

    So why does the same not apply to sex?

    Why is it if two people are both drunk and have sex, that only one is at fault?

    If a woman is drunk and goes to a drunk guy at a party and tells him she wants to have sex, why does that make him a rapist?

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  • [–] 3 points 8 hours ago (5 children)

    If a woman is drunk and goes to a drunk guy at a party and tells him she wants to have sex, why does that make him a rapist?

    It doesn't.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 hours ago* (4 children)

    That’s exactly what everyone says. And legally that is the case in a lot of places.

    That’s how a lot of these cases are. Even the Cornell one started off as her voluntarily having sex with 3 of them, which she then claimed were also rape.

    Hell I’ve personally been in that situation. At a buddy’s party drunk. Someone wife brought a friend and she was all over me, getting me to drink more. Telling other people she was gonna get me in bed. Then the next day tried to tell her friend that she was too drunk to consent and that I raped her. If I didn’t have literally 20 eyewitnesses to her being the instigator and her texting her friend during the party that she was going to seduce me, then I would have been charged with rape. Despite being the one that under the same logic would have actually been the one that was raped.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

    Yeah she was raped by those men. It wasn’t only because she was under the influence either.

    Agreeing to sex with two men doesn’t mean she consented to a gang rape.

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  • [–] -1 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

    Didn’t say she wasn’t. The four that came in later were absolutely rapists.

    But she willingly and voluntarily consented to sex with three men, then later claimed they raped her.

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