I'm happy with 90 day certs for homelab stuff: I'm not worried about anyone MITMing my network. I figure the short lived certs are more important for people who provide services with a significant external user-base, or who process sensitive transactions.
I have my certbot set to check every 12 hours and renew at 60 days. Renewing every 3 days would be 20x more load on Let's Encrypt systems, and that feels like abuse of a free service for my use case.