I literally pump my gas looking at the time because i need to be somewhere, i've literally never leisurely gotten gas, i dont even know what that means. Like youre bored at home and decide to go get some gas??

I mean, he'd still be wrong in my experience, but aiming for 10-15 min EV charging sounds fine. Would being as fast as gas be preferred? OF COURSE. I don't want to spend a moment at a gas station that I don't need to. Hell, I'll leave if the pump is too slow and get gas sooner at a better place.