I've been ruminating on just that lately! Most of my life and to this day most people automatically clock me as a man. The body does it. So when I talk to men they talk to me like one of their own, and it's a real mess in there. Patriarchy has our men fucked in the head baaaad. I know some very good men whose strength of character keep them good and honest. But it's wild to be treated very nicely by men who otherwise get gurgling mad at the thought of people exactly like me.