Yeah we were married for three years when my egg cracked. She's bisexual which helped. But when I told her, she said "I knew it, I told you so" ...and she had told me so.

A few times before my egg cracked she had just straight up told me that if I was a trans woman, she'd still love me and stay with me. I always brushed it off tho cuz I was going through the process of learning and accepting that I'm bisexual. Which was a (comparatively) easy process, but I always just assumed when I acted feminine that it was somehow because I was bi... So some internalized homophobia/biphobia mixed with cognitive dissonance 🙃