▲ 76 ▼ Janeway 's guide to socializing at large gatherings (thelemmy.club) submitted 5 hours ago by ruuster13@lemmy.zip to c/autism@lemmy.world 17 comments fedilink hide all child comments The problem is when they react poorly to our contribution, we internalize the error as our own flaw rather than recognizing we picked shitty people to socialize with.
[–] Kojichan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (2 children) This soooo does not work. I felt for 7 of 9 badly here. permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ruuster13@lemmy.zip [S] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 child) Why doesn't it work? Did you try it with shitty people? Sometimes you have to try over and over to find people who are not shitty. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] thenextguy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 hour ago Or, you can describe to them in detail how and why they are shitty and encourage them to become less shitty. This sort of people find this endearing in my experience. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ruuster13@lemmy.zip [S] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 child) Why doesn't it work? Did you try it with shitty people? Sometimes you have to try over and over to find people who are not shitty. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] thenextguy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 hour ago Or, you can describe to them in detail how and why they are shitty and encourage them to become less shitty. This sort of people find this endearing in my experience. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] thenextguy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 hour ago Or, you can describe to them in detail how and why they are shitty and encourage them to become less shitty. This sort of people find this endearing in my experience. permalink fedilink source parent