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[–] 52 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Seriously, why do these assessments always say "People tell me [blank]"? I can speak about my own experiences! I don't need someone to narrate my behavior like a sitcom!

Like I get that they're trying to understand how you behave around other people, not how you behave in your own head, but at least phrase it as "People tell me or I believe people think I am [blank]"; because that's how I'm forced to answer these questions anyways.

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  • [–] 42 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    People can misjudge themselves for a number of reasons. For instance, it's common for people to downplay certain traits they perceive as negative or rarely give much thought.

    "Are you too literal?" - "Not often, less than 4/10 times";

    "How often do people around you tend to consider you too literal?" - "Like 8/10 times"

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