While this is true for many, it’s also not true for just as many. Pardon the play in words but, you have to be hungry to achieve. I say this from my comfortable desk job with a great salary. I had kids young 20, and a second at 23. I worked the shit jobs and had to struggle for a while, but I was motivated so I made it happen. Now my kids see a mother who did everything to foster their lives, as well as my own. I did it all myself and that feels so good. Don’t give up, stay hungry.