no. russia isn’t the only country in the world that violently oppresses its population making it impossible to influence the government’s decisions.
Which is precisely why you can't pull the "Average russians don't have a say in the matter, russia is a dictatorship!" card every time someone brings up the complicity of average russians in the Ukraine War.
Also, they are going on fucking vacation, not seeking asylum, are you serious? Do you think your arguments actually sound logical and intelligent?