Some men are skipping showers before dates to embrace a new trend called pheromone-maxxing
(thelemmy.club)
"Your natural scent should be a cleanish one" is such a privledged position.
Wut... Privileged how? Because some people don't have access to showers? Because some people can't afford soap? I'm not seeing it.
And if you don't see a problem going on a date without showering or changing into fresh clothes or "acting any way they would at all before the date" then you don't get to complain that women are to picky, they have every right to be. There's a stark difference between "being yourself" and "deceiving someone to get laid".