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Lower rise jorts! Finally (thelemmy.club)
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And when I get the angle, distance and pose correctly, I look...kinda okay? I need some opinions on this

Also, this is a terrible matchup ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Jorts and a super long T-Shirt. I'm so dumb...

Please, greater powers, give me hips and a butt ๐Ÿ™
Just give me a lower body half as good as my mom's, I'm begging you ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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[โ€“] [S] 1 point 1 day ago (2 children)

I'd love to believe that, I really would...
But I've just heard so many conflicting reports.

  • Some people say hip bones are completely fused by 25, so they can widen until then.
  • Others say that once puberty is done, no widening or really any bone structure change is possible.
  • And some people anecdotally report their actual hip bones widening way past 25, even starting HRT past 30.

While I'd love to be optimistic...I think that if I expect zero change, I at least won't be too disappointed.
Thanks for your kindness, tho โค๏ธ

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  • [โ€“] 3 points 19 hours ago (1 child)

    i want it to be true so bad ๐Ÿ˜ญ my boxy torso/hips have been a huge source of dysphoria for me, so if i get any hip widening/tilting i would be ecstatic. i worry so much that i wont cause i didnt start till i was 34.

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    I am a quadrogenarian who only just began their new chapter as an open transfem person, and all I wish I could tell you in a way that would connect is: Fuck all the fuckers. You're beautiful and you matter. And both your voice and your perspective are appreciated. I'm sure I'm not just speaking on my own behalf even just within the Lemmy bubble, but I share it so it's at least voiced.

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  • [โ€“] [S] 1 point 14 hours ago

    Thank you, really โค๏ธ
    I've gotten over the fuckers and their stupid opinions, but...my dysphoria comes from within. And I'm working on it, but it still hurts. Being beautiful or even slightly desirable is something I rarely believe I do. But I'm trying ๐Ÿ’™

    Thanks for your kindness tho ๐Ÿฉท

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