"You're as bad as them because youre not nice to me." I don't care, people don't have to be nice abour things.
Bud, we are not allies, you do not have compatible values with me and you don't get to dictate when you do because you wish to claim ownership over anything vaguely "progressive." I was serious when I said that an inability to engage with the very fundamental reality that this is a settler-colonial system disqualifies you from a serious discussion on the topic. That is not purity politics, that is recognition of the pervasive nature of the social constructs that system relies on and the opposing interests that exist between colonizer and colonized.
Libs like you hate it being pointed out, but you are a fucking colonizer. Either grow up and change or stop clutching your pearls.