Just remember you're paying them to do a job. Not all of them are great at their job. Sadly you might have to shop around till you find someone good at their job. Just go into default answer mode, if you catch wind they're not going to be in any way helpful for you. It's sad that they are the ones who decided this is the medication or treatment for this particular disorder, and then if you ask for the medication they've deemed necessary, some get a power trip on demonising you for it. If all else fails, Ask a bazillion questions, like you know nothing, you can't have preconceptions, if you have no idea about anything? Maybe? Trust. You know what's up. You know what's right and wrong. Don't let them intimate you, just get outta there if they start messing with you. Save your sanity. Keep at it. You'll find someone.