What was the point of bitching about how much work having children are? What's the solution?

It's just venting. Do you want us coming into a parenting comm and deriding you for complaining about your kids?

But you did make a choice, and often, people without kids are viewed as the solution rather than pushing back against the system that forces you to need that solution. There's stories of parents fully expecting childfree people to sacrifice their free time for the sake of parents as if they were obligate babysitters or able to cover at a job or whatever. We get to bitch and moan about that stuff. Just like you get to bitch and moan about the downsides of having children.

Collective child care and the abolition of the nuclear family?