I see, you're talking about literal children who don't have coworkers or the means to excise people from their lives. Your wording there led to me assuming this was the typical gripe about 30 year old "young people" having agency, not that you were exclusively talking about people whose ages are on a clock.

I'm so used to 100% of conversations about this having all the air sucked up by aggrieved "unjustly estranged parents" making up fake stories.