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My wife is southeast Asian. Going to Japan, I felt a lot of like... weird energy at times where they just kind of looked at me. I never felt unsafe, just judged. I told my wife this, who said she felt the complete opposite. People were normal to her. She blended in.
She was born and raised in the States, and we traveled to a bunch of States (fuck Missouri) where she really felt unsafe like if she didn't leave town, they would make us. And Ive shared before how we got a "Go back to your own country" from other people, and even one showing off his gun.
Do I feel like Japanese racism is uncalled for? Absolutely. Again, I never felt unsafe. So it's really interesting to see this perspective in the comments like this is the worst disgusting attitude in the world because someone snubbed them vs feeling like you're not wanted/you should leave for your own safety.
I lived in Japan for 2 years. I had several expat friends with stories of going to the hospital, being told they were full, their Japanese wife showing up, and suddenly they have space. Other stories of legal disputes between a Japanese person and a foreign immigrant will always go to the Japanese person. Japanese culture is very non-confrontational, but don't think their brand of racism is safer. If we're comparing racism and deciding one is less bad than the other, we've already partially accepted that it has a place in society.
As someone in a similar situation, there are differences in the racism are stark.
They treat you differently but far more often than not, it is just curiosity or looking for entertainment from a zoo animal. They are not hostile or aggressive.
The "zoo animal" thing seems about right. Sometimes they look at you like they think you're about to start flinging shit around. Sometimes they're curious about how the zoo animal is going to do something simple like handle chopsticks. Often they don't make eye contact or keep their space because they don't want to have to interact with the zoo animal.
OTOH, part of their being polite is that if the gaijin actually asks them for help, they're obligated to try to help.
Overall, I liked it. As an introvert, I don't like countries where people approach the foreigner and try to practice their English on them. There are also too many countries where you're frequently approached by someone who wants to scam you, or wants you to give them money.
... until you try to open a bank account with them ad a foreigner. Tourists are fine and tolerated but become an expat and you'll have a much steeper time.