Wow, that's uh, that sure was something.
No, I don't think I've lived anywhere in this country that had it as an option. I've never been anywhere where myself and family/friends are within a convenient enough distance to plan that out, even if we had the time to make that journey by bike when it takes forty minutes on the round trip minimum alone by car already. Much like the majority of workers in this country, it's not that I don't want to put that effort in, I literally could not do that without sacrificing my health when I can barely keep up with that as it is (yes, with exercise). Even further, my life is already threatened enough by the fucks who drive around in light trucks they can barely see out of, which is most drivers at this point. Bright lights, a horn, and being in a whole fucking car has only just barely saved me on multiple occasions so far.
I don't know where the hell you've lived here, but it certainly does not resemble cities in most of this country. You gotta change your understanding of what qualifies as a choice if you're going to want to understand why people do things that you wouldn't; they're not just less aware or stupid.
Edit: not even going to touch the bullshit about it being a selfish "choice."