As a guy, I never understand what women find attractive about men. My partners in the past have tried to explain it to me, but when I pointed out other examples it's always "no, not like that." There must be some qualities I'm blind to.
I think it's a self selecting problem as well, since so many game developers are men, and we make what we know and understand. If there was more women designers, I'm sure we would get more hot guys, and maybe not even notice.